Are You “Ugly Sexy”?

The old saying “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” is a cliché for a reason. There are all kinds of people in the world, many who don’t fit into what society tells us is beautiful or handsome. And then there’s that one guy at the coffee shop (or whatever place you frequent) who … Continue reading Are You “Ugly Sexy”?


“How to Be a Side Chick” … Grrrrrr …

Through my snowed-in internet travels today I stumbled across an article titled, “How to Be a Side Chick” on wikiHow. “Am I serious?” you ask. Why yes, dear reader, I am. (Check out the link below if you think I’m playing.) I know the internet is the home of everything you never knew existed (ie: … Continue reading “How to Be a Side Chick” … Grrrrrr …

Music: Dancing to the Beat of My Drummer

What does the music you listen to you say about you? Nothing, but then again, everything. For example, my current play list includes work by Justin Timberlake, Beethoven, India.Arie, Beyonce, Frank Ocean, Ab-Soul, Rihanna, Skyzoo, Chrisette Michelle, Goapele, Lupe Fiasco, Dawn Richard, Kendrick Lamar, Miguel, System of a Down , Kid Cudi, The Weeknd, and … Continue reading Music: Dancing to the Beat of My Drummer

The Real Difference Between the Man You “Date” and the Man You Marry!

“ But I love him so much,” my friend sobbed to me. “I don’t understand why he doesn’t want a commitment with me!” Now, I was definitely listening to her and providing a strong shoulder to cry on, but my mind couldn’t help but to wander. Indulge me for a second and let’s take inventory … Continue reading The Real Difference Between the Man You “Date” and the Man You Marry!

I Want that Jay-Z and Beyonce Kind of Love?

You want love like Jay-Z and Beyonce? Barack and Michelle? Will and Jada? D. Wade and Gabby? ß Ok, well maybe not so much anymore since the whole so-called “on break baby” issue. What about having love like you and your partner? It’s difficult for me to understand why an adult would want the life … Continue reading I Want that Jay-Z and Beyonce Kind of Love?

Go Shawty, It’s Your Birthday!

Tomorrow is my 32nd birthday. I can’t believe a made it this far.I know that may seem to be a bit … I don’t know … pessimistic, strange, or lacking forward thought to some, but it’s honest.Instead of a big party or a crazy night, I’ve opted for a more of the introspective journey. I … Continue reading Go Shawty, It’s Your Birthday!

What is Unconditional Love?

During the last few weeks, I've had some personal conversations with loved ones and come across some things online that got me to thinking. It started with popular Youtube comedian Tre Melvin "coming out" and revealing to the world (or his YT followers at least) that he is a bisexual man. Hmmm ... <--- that's … Continue reading What is Unconditional Love?