Getting My &*#@ Together Series: An Addicts Story

She stumbled on my porch; slurring her words, and dang near foaming at the mouth. And while this may sound like an introduction to my next zombie thriller, I’m actually describing my Friday night. And this person I’m talking about is a friend of my neighbor. I compare her to a mosquito; she comes around … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: An Addicts Story

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: I’m a F*&# Unicorn!!!!

We’re about to have a very layered conversation …                                 … One that is filled with nuisance … And perspective, but we’re going to have it anyway, damn it, because: 1. It’s how I feel. 2. I think there are many others out there that may feel the same way. 3. It’s my blog, so … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: I’m a F*&# Unicorn!!!!

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Dirty Water

As usual, there I was minding my entire black ass business when this week’s blog topic came to me while listening to a podcast. This particular podcast is called Ear Hustle, a weekly show based in San Quentin that “brings you the stories of life inside prison, shared and produced by those living it.” While this … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Dirty Water

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Y’all Selfish AF?!?!?!

“I’m there for everyone else, but no one is there when I need them.” While those exact words may not have been used, I’ve seen this sentiment run across my timeline a lot in the last week. I guess it stuck out because I know how that feels … And apparently you guys do too. … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Y’all Selfish AF?!?!?!

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: I Literally Have No Idea What I’m Doing

I’m flawed, but still dope AF. We all are. While last week’s blog focused on how dope I/we are, this week’s is focusing on all of the things I don’t know. *insert semi-sad face It all started last week when I reached out to my mom – Yes, I talk about my mom a lot … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: I Literally Have No Idea What I’m Doing

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Sometimes You Just Shine Too Bright – Don’t Dim Your Light

Let me make one thing clear. I aint &*#@! And while that may sound self-deprecating, it kind of isn’t in this context. All I’m saying is that I’m still getting it together … and will always be … because there will always be room for improvement (I mean, that’s what this blog is all about). … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Sometimes You Just Shine Too Bright – Don’t Dim Your Light

Tick, Tock! Is Your Relationship Clock Out of Time?

Have you ever loved someone you knew wasn’t good for you?Have you ever known a relationship wouldn’t end well for whatever reason, but you still held on?If you haven’t had this experience, you should consider yourself either very smart or very lucky.Since luck has always seemed to lose me in a crowd and my smarts … Continue reading Tick, Tock! Is Your Relationship Clock Out of Time?

“How to Be a Side Chick” … Grrrrrr …

Through my snowed-in internet travels today I stumbled across an article titled, “How to Be a Side Chick” on wikiHow. “Am I serious?” you ask. Why yes, dear reader, I am. (Check out the link below if you think I’m playing.) I know the internet is the home of everything you never knew existed (ie: … Continue reading “How to Be a Side Chick” … Grrrrrr …

Music: Dancing to the Beat of My Drummer

What does the music you listen to you say about you? Nothing, but then again, everything. For example, my current play list includes work by Justin Timberlake, Beethoven, India.Arie, Beyonce, Frank Ocean, Ab-Soul, Rihanna, Skyzoo, Chrisette Michelle, Goapele, Lupe Fiasco, Dawn Richard, Kendrick Lamar, Miguel, System of a Down , Kid Cudi, The Weeknd, and … Continue reading Music: Dancing to the Beat of My Drummer