Getting My &*#@ Together Series: An Addicts Story

She stumbled on my porch; slurring her words, and dang near foaming at the mouth. And while this may sound like an introduction to my next zombie thriller, I’m actually describing my Friday night. And this person I’m talking about is a friend of my neighbor. I compare her to a mosquito; she comes around … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: An Addicts Story

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: I’m a F*&# Unicorn!!!!

We’re about to have a very layered conversation …                                 … One that is filled with nuisance … And perspective, but we’re going to have it anyway, damn it, because: 1. It’s how I feel. 2. I think there are many others out there that may feel the same way. 3. It’s my blog, so … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: I’m a F*&# Unicorn!!!!

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Dirty Water

As usual, there I was minding my entire black ass business when this week’s blog topic came to me while listening to a podcast. This particular podcast is called Ear Hustle, a weekly show based in San Quentin that “brings you the stories of life inside prison, shared and produced by those living it.” While this … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Dirty Water

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Y’all Selfish AF?!?!?!

“I’m there for everyone else, but no one is there when I need them.” While those exact words may not have been used, I’ve seen this sentiment run across my timeline a lot in the last week. I guess it stuck out because I know how that feels … And apparently you guys do too. … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Y’all Selfish AF?!?!?!

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: I Literally Have No Idea What I’m Doing

I’m flawed, but still dope AF. We all are. While last week’s blog focused on how dope I/we are, this week’s is focusing on all of the things I don’t know. *insert semi-sad face It all started last week when I reached out to my mom – Yes, I talk about my mom a lot … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: I Literally Have No Idea What I’m Doing

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: I, Too, Can Catch These Hands

I’m the baby of the family. I’ve always been a high achiever academically; never had to work real hard to get good grades in school. I don’t believe in mediocrity. I’ve always been the type to make goals, smash them, and then move on to the next one. These may seem like self-appreciating, yet insignificant … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: I, Too, Can Catch These Hands

How to Beat Writer’s Block!

 I was on a roll for a minute there. I’d come home after work, sit at my computer, and pump out an entire short story in one night. Not sure what happened, but if the legend is true …I’ve been stricken with writer’s block!Dun, Dun, Duunnnn!!!Doctors and scientists have been studying this phenomenon for centuries … Continue reading How to Beat Writer’s Block!

The Real Difference Between the Man You “Date” and the Man You Marry!

“ But I love him so much,” my friend sobbed to me. “I don’t understand why he doesn’t want a commitment with me!” Now, I was definitely listening to her and providing a strong shoulder to cry on, but my mind couldn’t help but to wander. Indulge me for a second and let’s take inventory … Continue reading The Real Difference Between the Man You “Date” and the Man You Marry!