Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Dirty Water

As usual, there I was minding my entire black ass business when this week’s blog topic came to me while listening to a podcast. This particular podcast is called Ear Hustle, a weekly show based in San Quentin that “brings you the stories of life inside prison, shared and produced by those living it.” While this … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Dirty Water

Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Y’all Selfish AF?!?!?!

“I’m there for everyone else, but no one is there when I need them.” While those exact words may not have been used, I’ve seen this sentiment run across my timeline a lot in the last week. I guess it stuck out because I know how that feels … And apparently you guys do too. … Continue reading Getting My &*#@ Together Series: Y’all Selfish AF?!?!?!

The Real Difference Between the Man You “Date” and the Man You Marry!

“ But I love him so much,” my friend sobbed to me. “I don’t understand why he doesn’t want a commitment with me!” Now, I was definitely listening to her and providing a strong shoulder to cry on, but my mind couldn’t help but to wander. Indulge me for a second and let’s take inventory … Continue reading The Real Difference Between the Man You “Date” and the Man You Marry!

I Want that Jay-Z and Beyonce Kind of Love?

You want love like Jay-Z and Beyonce? Barack and Michelle? Will and Jada? D. Wade and Gabby? ß Ok, well maybe not so much anymore since the whole so-called “on break baby” issue. What about having love like you and your partner? It’s difficult for me to understand why an adult would want the life … Continue reading I Want that Jay-Z and Beyonce Kind of Love?

What is Unconditional Love?

During the last few weeks, I've had some personal conversations with loved ones and come across some things online that got me to thinking. It started with popular Youtube comedian Tre Melvin "coming out" and revealing to the world (or his YT followers at least) that he is a bisexual man. Hmmm ... <--- that's … Continue reading What is Unconditional Love?